Have you ever had a child who won't stay on task unless you are there to make sure he does? Are you ever tempted to threaten negative consequences to try to motivate them to stay focused on their school work or chores? Positive consequences for good choices and self-government motivate children way more than the […]
How To Motivate Students & Kids Chores Read More »
I don’t know a parent who wouldn’t say, “My child is so smart!” We all recognize the intelligence our children possess. But, what about when they just can’t stop themselves from blurting out all that intelligence when Mom is on a phone call, or when adults are having a conversation? Interrupting is a sign of a thinker. Smart people interrupt.
Interrupting Porter – Child Behavior Problems Read More »
In this conference call segment Nicholeen answered the question “What can I do to slow down?” She spoke about Stephen R. Covey’s Urgency Addiction:
“It means that you try to make everything so urgent (and) you try to be so efficient, that you stop being effective.”
Weekly Gem 3-28-13, Avoiding The Urgency Addiction Read More »
“Londyn,” fourteen year old Paije said. “You have to clean the griddle since you used it.”
Londyn replied with, “No, kitchen is your stewardship this week. You have to do it.”
“I had to wash the griddle when it was your stewardship, so you have to wash it now.” Paije countered.
“It’s Your Turn To Clean It!” – Problem Solving Steps Read More »
I am not a stress out type person. My part ‘yellow’ personality usually keeps me rather laid back and happy no matter what troubles come my way. This has been a blessing many times in my life. But, I can feel stress, and sometimes I do. Here is my story of how I conquered the worse case of stress I have had.
Stress And Anxiety Symptoms
Stressed Out To Chilled Out ~ My True Story Read More »
All people have a desire to have a certain amount of control over their environment, and the people in their environment. Control makes people feel happy, satisfied, and safe. The problem with the kind of control explained in this question is that it is only temporary control.
“You’re Breathing My Air!” -Fighting Over The Silly Stuff Read More »
Awesome Success story of 20 month old boy doing Self-Government! If he can, anyone can! (audio recording from weekly Implementation Course Conference Call)
20 Month Old Learns Self-Government Read More »
Question – Chores And Allowances “Dear Nicholeen, My daughter is really struggling over money. She wants some pocket money big time so she’s telling me I have to give her money for doing chores or she won’t be motivated… She thinks she is hard done by and has fought her way out of every chore
Allowance For Kids & Kids Chores Read More »
[video:http://youtu.be/p5ld6uEgOpE]
This video is a report of whatteaching self government has been doing lately to help teach the world self-government.And I give you a FREE gift at the end.
As you may already know, the book Parenting AHouse Untied has now been translated into Chinese. I am waiting to hear from publishers and people associated with the Chinese governnment about getting the book out to the Chinese people.
What you may not know is that the book is also tr
I Have Some Reporting To Do! Read More »
For Families Who Want Support While Teaching Self-Government! I have been teaching self-government principles & skills for almost 14 years now. This whole time I have hadtwo goals.To help people understand self government principles and to present the principles in a way that families can easily adopt them to family life. I started by making
TSG Support Group! Now READY! Read More »
Hopefully the moment you clicked the link to this article your computer gave you a warning that this article will have the word porn in it. That is a sign that you are trying to keep your family away from pornography by installing a security system and filter on your computer. That is a step
How to Quit Porn: A Spiritual Transformation Read More »
The best way to teach your children to live by principle is to live by principle yourself.
How To Solve Any Problem! 7 Self-Government Principles Read More »
Tunnels
I live in Utah. There are no train tunnels in Utah.
Finding The Right Tunnel Is A Lot Like Raising Children Read More »
Addiction Help
Music can be really healing for the soul, but it can also be damaging.
Every Day Addiction Recovery Stories! Read More »
What is Efficiency?
At this time of year we set goals. We resolve to change our ways and become better than we are. The most common resolutions usually have something to do with time or body size. I don’t know how many times I have resolved to get up earlier, or get up earlier to regularly exercise. Likewise, I don’t know how
Efficiency Disease & Dealing With Stress Read More »
This year our family is doing a new educational Christmas Advent for the 12 days of Christmas. This advent idea was given to me by my good friend, Yvonne Averett. She has two girls ages 9 and 11, and made it for them. They are a homeschool family, and this is one of the ways that they are inviting the Christmas Spirit and Christ into their homeschool this year. I know not everyone who reads my blog is a Christian, but I am and loved this idea. So, I thought I would pass it along. I am always up for family learning and good h
Educational Christmas Advent For Children Read More »
Over the years we have had a variety of Christmases. Some years we have had more money than other years, but no matter the income we have always felt like we wanted to give our children something which would encourage them to be creative. To create stories.
Stories are the bud of genius. They are the spring of inspiration.
Home Made Christmas Gifts For Kids Read More »
“…Everyone is selling something,” I said as I talked to a young girl one evening.
Her mother had just made a comment about how the outfit the girl was wearing was “too revealing” and so she would need to go change it. The fifteen year old girltilted her hip and rolled her eyes as she smirked at her mom. This smile meant, “I don’t care what you say.
Bodies For Sale! Teaching Modesty Read More »
Who will end up feeling like a turkey this Thanksgiving?
Even though most people look forward to eating a traditional Thanksgiving dinner with family, there are a few who get a little anxious when they think about seeing people they haven’t talked to for a while or people they don’t feel like they get along with.
Thanksgiving Drama! Read More »
When the end of the day comes I find myself looking forward to bedtime. My bedtime is always exciting to anticipate since all my days are usually purpose-filled and very busy. However, I also look forward to the time the children go to bed each night. I love my children, and our days are filled with joy and laughter, but that quiet time after they have gone to bed, and before I go to bed is a great treat too. The quiet times to think, ponder, write and read are some of the treasured moments of my days as well.
I have noticed that some nights I don’t have a good attitude at bedtime because I am craving my quiet time so much. On these nights I get a little bit selfish and don’t really want to
Children Need Sleep! ~ Getting Them To Bed Happy Read More »