This Call Covers:
Being an introverted parent with very energetic children
Helping teenagers learn respect
Helping children not masturbate at a young age
Differentiating between family ties and need to agree with others
Verbal abuse among siblings
Creating proper tone and boundaries with a spouse
Support Call 9-17-20 Read More »
My friend recently posted a picture of her family on a hike. The children were laughing and having a great time. I was instantly inspired to do a fun activity with my family. I thought, “Hiking is a great idea! We should plan a time to go on a family hike.” My friend was capturing
Pointing Fingers At Perfectionism Read More »
Have you ever completely lost control of yourself and you weren’t exactly sure why? This can happen to anyone. This usually means that you’ve been triggered in some way. There’s so much talk about emotional triggers nowadays that triggers are turning into common excuses for poor behavior. Could it be that we might sometimes be
Good Triggers vs. Bad Triggers and Calm Communication Skills Read More »
Teaching Self-Government’s premiere course, designed to take you through all the basics of teaching yourself, and your children, how to self-govern.
In addition to the course, you will also have access to the weekly Support Group for 3 months, and bi-weekly group Mentor Calls.
TSG Parenting Course Read More »
This Call Covers:
Extra chore variety at home
Doing extra chores during the summer
Corrections while someone is on 24hr loss of privileges
Staying calm while working with foster children/social workers
Controlling personal trigger points
Support Call 6-10-20 Read More »
This Call Covers:
Calm down time manipulation
Out of control teenagers
Four basic skills refresher
How to stop getting overwhelmed with TSG
Calm down time manipulation
Out of control teenagers
Four basic skills refresher
How to not get overwhelmed with TSG
Avoiding lecturing
Support Call 6-3-20 Read More »
Roles. They define our rights, obligations, responsibilities, beliefs, and even who we are. How well do we each understand our respective roles? How do we teach our children about proper roles? How would the problems children and parents face change if they better understood roles? Aren’t parents whether aggressive, passive or assertive always defining roles anyway? How do roles effect business relationships? Why do we see the roles in today’s world wrapped around so much confusion and debate when it’s impossible to escape roles? This book (published in 2016) makes roles easier to understand, and it shows how to strengthen roles and empower ourselves and those we live and work with to reach our full potentials.
This exclusive audio seminar has previously only been available to members of the TSG Support Group. It details the 5 Key Characteristics of raising and becoming a joyful adult. Many of you have heard Nicholeen say:
I am not making perfect children; they don’t exist. I am making joyful adults who know what their mission in life is and can’t wait to fight for it and have a solid relationship with God and family.
While teaching your children and yourself the principles of self-government is a big part of the process towards becoming joyful, there is more to it. Listen to this five-part audio seminar to better understand how you and your children can prepare to be joyful adults and better live your missions in life.
Becoming a Joyful Adult Read More »
Is your home in crisis? Do your children never do what they are told? Do you find yourself completely overwhelmed and hating to interact with your children? Do your children treat you with disrespect and cause contention at home? Are you out of control of your emotions as a parent too? If any of these descriptions sound like your house, then you might be in crisis and you will definitely benefit from reading this book. It is written for you. This book is also written for people who don‘t want to ever have a home like I have described above and for parents who want to have an effectively communicating family right from the very beginning of parenthood.
Parenting: A House United 2nd Edition Read More »
As parents deliberately trying to create the kind of family we want, there is one issue that we’re constantly faced with and will never be able to escape. This is by far the number one problem that parents ask me about after working to teach self-government in their home. It’s without a doubt the hardest thing any of us will ever do in this life. What is this number one issue? It’s taking command of our own personal self-government.
Note: This is an online course.
Dare to Take Command Read More »
This Call Covers:
Helping children overcome being grumpy
Bedtime discipline questions
SODAS outside of the rule of three
Support Call 4-8-20 Read More »
This Call Covers:
Self government in a time of crisis
Siblings being silly
Calm down spot advice
Helping parents learn about your self government journey
Autism and being corrected by others
Support Call 3-18-20 Read More »
This Call Covers:
Bedtime extra chores
Cell phones and young children
Loving correction of spouses
Hard behaviors and children running from home
Support Call 2-12-2020 Read More »
This Call Covers:
Preventing yourself from micromanaging
Helping your introvert children “fit in”
Children going out of control
Using the 4 basic skills with other adults
Support Call 1-22-20 Read More »
This Call Covers:
How to help my family understand my vision
Micromanaging and touchy children
Masturbation in teenagers
Helping a spouse change their attitude
Support Call 1-15-20 Read More »
This Call Covers:
Development in young children
Processing between men and women
Helping children wake up better
Support Call 8-14-19 Read More »
This call includes:
-A mother’s concerns about her son’s self-worth and self-bullying behavior
-Grandmother is living in the home and is undermining and judging the TSG system the mother has established
Support Call 6-12-19 Read More »
In his book, “The Power of Positive Thinking,” Norman Vincent Peale shares a story of a pastor talking to a painter about worrying. “Howard, don’t you ever worry?” the pastor asked the painter. The painter laughed and said, “No, not on your life. I don’t believe in it.” The painter goes on to tell how
Worry Not – Live Happy! Read More »
A while ago,I was driving down the highway looking at the clear blue sky and the snow-capped mountains.A bird with a bright yellow head and a black body was perched on a wooden fence on the side of the road.The mountains were so beautiful.The spring flowers were starting to bloom.The radio played my favorite classical music station.The drive felt calm, like a dream.
This Call Covers:
Dealing with in-laws as adults.
Creating family traditions
Support Call 12-7-18 Read More »