Index: Tone
September 13, 2018
“There is no more war in my classroom, and there is no more war in my home.” Those were the words of a teacher from Kenya this summer. It was part of a parenting training I attended designed to teach Catholic leaders how to teach their families self-government skills and good communication. In the 19 years I’ve been teaching parenting… Read more »
June 15, 2008
My husband is a neat and tidy sort of a person. There was a time when our family was living out of laundry baskets instead of closets and drawers, because I just wasn’t able to stay on top of the laundry like I would have liked to.Spencer suggested the topic of having a set time for the laundry to be… Read more »
June 14, 2008
We have just made a pretty good argument for Dad’s to parent differently and have different experiences with their children. However, having a different God given role doesn’t mean that Dad should feel separated from the flow of the home. In fact, it is important that Dad should view himself as a co-president of the family business. Families should be… Read more »
June 13, 2008
I have had many questions latelyasking if fathers should parent different andhow to help fatherbecome part of mother’s vision for the family. There are many different situations and personalities, so there areprobably many ways to treat each different relationship.I am going to share some of what I have learned about fathers and what I havedoneto help myhusband and our relationship.For… Read more »
December 2, 2019
Family traditions instill personal and family identity and bind families together throughout their many phases of growth and change. After children and grandchildren are grown and gone off to live their adult lives, the traditions remain as reminders of the sweetness of home and family, what is most important in life, and who they really are. Each new holiday our… Read more »
April 11, 2011
10 Favorites for Family Night Family activity nights are big deals at our house! Not that we spend a lot of money or anything, but we do keep them a big priority. We know that having regular family activities keeps our family relationships fresh. The night gives us something to talk about and look forward to. Here are is a… Read more »
September 19, 2019
Remember your family meetings! Family meetings are the core of Teaching Self-Government. If you have weekly family meetings, the whole family will stay focused on their family government. See what happens when you miss a few weeks, it’s noticeable. In my home it’s especially noticeable with Dad. He has less patience and focus as a parent when we miss our… Read more »
July 19, 2013
“Mom! Mom! Mom!” said a boy at the swimming pool one day.The boy’s mother didn’t answer back. She was busy setting up her pool chair.“Mom! Can you get me my swim noodle? Mom?” the boy repeated.The mother still said nothing. The anxiety was obviously building in the boy.Soon, the mother was annoyed with the boy. She walked over to him… Read more »
June 26, 2008
“…We taught the 4 basic skills and the kids had a lot of funrole-playing the way to respond to the different situations, they especially loved disagreeing appropriately! 🙂 Well, I hadn’t determined what our consequences were going to be yet so I told them we would just practice the 4 basic skills this week. I’ve learned from this that it… Read more »
February 22, 2021
A teenage girl talking back to her mother in an airport about her emotions said, “We have to let our emotions out. I’m being true to myself. I won’t stuff my emotions just because you don’t want to hear them!” The mother, who had told her daughter that she couldn’t use her phone anymore, was correcting her daughter for talking… Read more »
April 22, 2022
(This event is not hosted by TSG. Nicholeen Peck will be a Keynote Speaker.) Be Inspired by Expert Speakers The Education Empowerment Conference includes keynotes and breakout sessions for parents. Our speakers are education experts, thought leaders, and motivators—hand-picked to transform the way you think about your kids’ education. Stay tuned as we add more speakers closer to the event!… Read more »
April 15, 2008
A lot of children have selective hearing; have you noticed? Some of this selective hearing is planned and some isn’t. They really don’t hear us correctly sometimes. We can do something to make sure this doesn’t happen as often. Have you ever said don’t run down the hall, and the first thing your child does is run down the hall?… Read more »
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Behaviors
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Consequences
- Chores (143)
- Motivating and Inspiration (138)
- Privileges (50)
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- SODAS: Problem Solving Exercises (48)
- Time-Out (for ages 7-8 and younger) (44)
Education
- Homeschool (126)
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Relationships
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Skills
- Accepting No Answers and Criticism (234)
- Analyzing (178)
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- Disagreeing Appropriately (173)
- Dropping the subject (78)
- Encouragement (97)
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- Four Basic Skills (154)
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- No Answers (184)
- Praise (122)
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- Rule of Three (ages 6-8+) (107)
- Social Skills (178)
- Work Ethic (62)
Structure
- Family Culture (296)
- Family Economy (27)
- Family Standard (78)
- Mentor Sessions (78)
- Mission Statement (24)
- Priorities (71)
Tone
- Anxiety (100)
- Assertive Communication (184)
- Balance (104)
- Calm (247)
- Changing Hearts (177)
- Common Vision Creation (165)
- Connecting (Looking in the eyes) (95)
- Describe (73)
- Family Unity (182)
- Mission (46)
- Power of Calm (113)
- Seek to Understand (121)
- Unity (107)
- Vision (132)