This call covers:
* Socializing Skills
* Six Years Old Girl And Private Parts
* 23 Month Old And the Power of Calm
* Scheduling Academics
* 13-Year-Old Son Issues
* SODAS
* Correction Length
* Toddler Throwing Things
* Chaos with spouse while implementing program
* Multiple Children And Staying Calm
* Teen Loneliness
* Son Working Full Time in Summer
* 11 Year Old Girl Struggling After School
Support Call 5-03-2023 Read More »
This call covers:
* 24 Hour Loss of Privileges And Special Events
* Games
* Disagreeing Appropriately
* Nap Time For 3 Year Old
* Sleep Schedules
* Obsessively Timid Body Language
* Siblings Using The Skills With Each Other
* How To Quick Start The Program
* Family Vision
* 5 Years Old Getting Calm
* Verbal Aggression
Support Call 4-26-2023 Read More »
by Nicholeen Peck When children are little they ask “Why?” about everything. They want to know: “Why is sky the blue?”, “Why can birds fly?” and “Why do we have to eat our vegetables?” While some questions are cute and fun to answer, others seem like a stall tactic or an annoyance. After a few
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by Nicholeen Peck The many messages telling us how we ‘should’ live our lives can be dizzying. It seems to me everyone has a plan for us; from advertisers to organizers. For years, I’ve sat in committee meetings and witnessed presentations laced with presumptions and conclusions based on someone else’s value system – their plan
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This call covers:
In Need of Clarity in using Self-Government…Something doesn’t feel right.
Perfectionism
Opportunity to meet Porter
Rule of 3
Calming Down for Children 8 and older before entering the rule of 3
4 Year old extremely strong willed
Driving and Following Instructions
Keeping calm while being sick
No answers between siblings
How family and mentor meetings look with the booklets
Using skills in public
Time limit for Rule of Three instructions
Reading “Roles” with older children
Support Call 4-05-2023 Read More »
This call covers:
Electronics Addiction
Solo Mum – And 15 Wants To Give Commands To Siblings
Practicing Calm Down
24 Hour Loss of Privilege and Major Maintenance
Does Co-Sleeping With Children Discourage Self-Government
2 And a Half Year Old Boy Does Not Accept a “No” Answer
Job/Phone/and Out of Control
Speaking Over Me During Pre-Teaching
Bedtime Battle
Implementing TSG with older children
Emotional Bondage Habit After Loss of Privileges
Dinner Time With Seven Year Old Son
“I Want Things To Be Fun and Funny!”
Navigating Values With a “Culture War” between parents
Young son is physically abusive and won’t take responsibility
Anger during role playing session
Navigating work time with young children
Support Call 3-29-2023 Read More »
by Nicholeen Peck “It’s harder for children nowadays with all of the technology and temptations and bad examples”, a mother said to me at a recent conference where I was speaking. We talked for a moment about the differences between her childhood and the childhood of her children. She was concerned. She felt lost and
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This call covers:
Teen Caught In Between
Where to Start?
Sitting Still
Disrespect Toward Teachers At School
Follow Up On Teen Sneaking Cell Phone
Young siblings snapping at each other
Success story!
Support Call 3-22-2023 Read More »
This call covers:
Calming Down a 6 Year Old
Daughter Thinks TSG Doesn’t Let Her Have Control
Teen son not learning the lesson from corrections and extra chore
Teen At Risk
Messy bedroom and constantly out of instructional control
Love of Learning
Problems At School
Children feel mother’s cleanliness standards are too high
Teen sneaking cell phone into the house
17-year-old daughter is always late to work and boss is enabling behavior
Success story: pre-teaching Rule of Three
Using TSG in a homeschool co-op group
Support Call 3-15-2023 Read More »
Roles. They define our rights, obligations, responsibilities, beliefs, and even who we are. How well do we each understand our respective roles? How do we teach our children about proper roles? How would the problems children and parents face change if they better understood roles? This audiobook makes roles easier to understand, and it shows how to strengthen roles and empower ourselves and those we live and work with to reach our full potentials.
The special edition audiobook contains author commentary at the end of various chapters, and is exclusively offered as a stream through our website. The eBook is the same print as the physical book, but available on our easy to use online e-reader!
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by Nicholeen Peck Sometimes it’s nice to find out that something we’re doing is really working to bring about good things. Positive online posting makes a big difference in our world, even if it doesn’t always seem like there is time to do it. This week a parent, who attends my weekly digital parenting support
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Come to this 3 day, in-person event! During this training you can get direct access to Nicholeen, and specific answers to your questions.
This is our crash course on teaching parents how to govern themselves, and how to teach your children to govern themselves.
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This call covers:
4-year-old toilet issues
Homeschooling, disorganized home, work/money
9 yr/old that won’t make eye contact
Advice about grandparents’ visit
18-year-old daughter living at home, not working, not going to school
Incorporating TSG in Children’s Ministry
Calming down in all situations & mutism
Video game addiction and mental fracturing
Finding a media balance for the family
Praise becoming a negative trigger
Success story with children at a funeral
Support Call 3-08-2023 Read More »
This call covers:
“No” answers for young children (22 months and younger).
Regression of skills after being tended by Grandma.
Tween son not wanting to let video games go.
Age 3 child influenced by inconsistency in parenting due to divorce.
Scheduling the family chores and life.
Implementing TSG in an unstable parenting/family situation.
Trouble with using the word “Roles”.
Using TSG language to manipulate family members.
“No” answers about social media for teens.
Child not wanting to follow through with a class.
Parents wanting teens to spend more time at home with family.
Support Call 3-01-2023 Read More »
“Enseñanza de los hijos: Un Hogar Unido” está basado en la serie de seminarios populares “Enseñando a Gobernarse a Sí Mismos” de Nicholeen. Este libro muestra a los padres las habilidades comunicativas necesarias, a fin de enseñar a los hijos a gobernarse a sí mismos. Las familias pueden llegar a ser más felices por medio de un ambiente familiar adecuado y la comprensión del comportamiento de los niños. Si las familias implementan, de manera simple, algunos de los principios de enseñanza comprobados, la familia mejorará. El cándido estilo de Nicholeen y su experiencia con adolescentes difíciles hacen muy útil este libro y lo convierte en un entretenimiento para todos. Aunque usted ya haya escuchado a Nicholeen anteriormente, no debe dejar pasar la oportunidad de leer este libro. Nos brinda nuevas historias, ejemplos, preguntas y respuestas de mucho valor y otros pensamientos nunca antes compartidos.
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This call covers:
Teen Aggression
Confidence
Teasing
5 Year Old Language
Boundaries and Consequences with 16 Year Old
13 Year Old Girl
Food Pickiness
3 Year Old Tantrums
Helping 5 Year Old Get Calm and Accept Consequences
Grudge Holding
Support call 2-22-23 Read More »
“My daughter is so ungrateful! All I do is serve her, but she doesn’t care about me or what I feel. And, she never helps out, even when I ask nicely,” an exasperated mother told me about her teenage daughter. In a later conversation, Emily, the daughter said to me, “I never get anything my
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This call covers:
Helping Son Regain Calmness
Implementing A Thomas Jefferson Education
Correction At Bedtime
Just Getting Started
Melatonin
Emotional Teen
Having Trouble Understanding And Staying Calm
Homeschooling With 8 Children
Love of Learner Question
Blended Family and Parental Alienation
Accepting Consequences
Support Call 2-15-23 Read More »
Love runs deeper than many people realize, and the outcomes of love are significant. We all recognize when we don’t feel loved or when we have a hard time feeling love for someone who isn’t behaving lovingly. But, what we don’t often recognize is that love isn’t something that can be turned on and off
This call covers:
A Husband’s Question
Blame and Gossiping
Physical Fights
Out Of Instructional Control
Teenage Daughter First Date
K-12 Basics In Four Years
Carelessness and Getting Distracted
Lazy Learners
Tone
stuck in the workbooks of homeschool
Support call 1-25-23 Read More »