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These books have been helping children learn in a fun way for years!

Teach your children the Four Basic Skills of:

  • Saying and being “Okay”
  • How to accept “No” Answers
  • How to Accept Consequences
  • How to Disagree Appropriately

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Clara sitting calmly on stairs

Self-Regulation Skills for All Ages —Even Toddlers!

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by Nicholeen Peck As parents, my husband and I hope that our children will succeed as parents. My daughter, Paije, has exceeded my parenting expectations with her little toddler daughter, Clara. The skills that Paije has taught Clara to help her do self-regulation and self-calming are good skills for 21-month-olds, however, these self-government skills that …

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Support Call 6-21-2023

This call covers:

* Misbehavior While On The Phone
* Summer Schedule
* 24-Hour Loss of Privileges Takes the Whole Day
* Success Story! Age 4 and Disagreeing Appropriately
* No Answers VS. Disagreeing Appropriately
* Teaching Disagreeing Appropriately to Young Children
* Teenage Sibling Bossy When Babysitting
* Husband Not Calm
* Role Playing “No” Answers and Corrections
* Daughter Afraid of Mother When Her Bedroom is Messy
* Age 7 Finds Joy in Blatant Disobedience & Age 10 is Bossy When Playing With Younger Siblings

Support Call 6-07-2023

This call covers:

* School in the Summer
* Loss of Privileges for Aggression
* Scheduling School in the Summer
* Setting Clear Expectations
* Addressing Extreme Statements
* Educational Goals
* Balance with Disagree Appropriately Skill
* Wake up Time in the Summer
* Inappropriate Activities for Aged 13 Daughter
* Daughter Pretends To Not Hear Parents
* Phases of Learning

Support Call 4-26-2023

This call covers:

* 24 Hour Loss of Privileges And Special Events
* Games
* Disagreeing Appropriately
* Nap Time For 3 Year Old
* Sleep Schedules
* Obsessively Timid Body Language
* Siblings Using The Skills With Each Other
* How To Quick Start The Program
* Family Vision
* 5 Years Old Getting Calm
* Verbal Aggression

Support Call 3-15-2023

This call covers:

Calming Down a 6 Year Old
Daughter Thinks TSG Doesn’t Let Her Have Control
Teen son not learning the lesson from corrections and extra chore
Teen At Risk
Messy bedroom and constantly out of instructional control
Love of Learning
Problems At School
Children feel mother’s cleanliness standards are too high
Teen sneaking cell phone into the house
17-year-old daughter is always late to work and boss is enabling behavior
Success story: pre-teaching Rule of Three
Using TSG in a homeschool co-op group

Support call 12-28-22

This call covers:
Corrections
Single Mom Confused With Roles
Chores for certain ages
Disagree appropriately question
Following through
Book Recommendations
Fighting And Not Listening
Morning Chores Earned The Night Before

Support call 12-14-22

This call covers:
Separation anxiety in 6yo son
Sexual Grooming
Our Home Is Too Serious
Sibling Love
Stay Emotionally Intact In A Storm of Emotions
Success Story and Question:
I Didn’t Hear You, And Too Much Disagreeing Appropriately
wake up time
son getting things off his chest

Parents Want To Rescue Their Youth From Confusion

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Nearly every day parents ask me how to help their “wayward young adult” or how to heal the heart of their “disconnected teen.” Children displaying unnatural affection by disconnecting from loving parents is an epidemic in our modern society. Normal human development involves increasingly seeking for autonomy as a person launches into adulthood. However, turning …

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7 Tips For Reducing Stress and Anxiety In Children

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Families are concerned about their children who are struggling with stress and anxiety. Why are stress and anxiety so prevalent nowadays, and what can families do to help in loving ways? Understanding Stress and Anxiety Stress and anxiety are real feelings that many children suffer with daily. According to Georgetown University Health Policy Institute Center …

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Support call 9-21-22

This call covers:
modified rule of three.
When to start rule of three.
TSG in public.
child wanting to sweep things under the rug.
Child disagreeing appropriately EVERY time.
Consequences for 2 year old with speech delay.
Children following instructions to avoid consequences.
Showing compassion but helping adult son improve.
Daughter wanting to cut her hair short.
Child disrespecting mom.
Husband undermining mom.

The Vocabulary Gap And Its Effect On Families

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When people don’t speak the same language, it’s hard to understand each other. Likewise, when parents and children don’t speak the same language, then they can become disconnected because of lack of understanding. Understanding creates a feeling of respect and bonding in relationships and is a vital component to creating family unity and solving family …

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Support call 8-17-22

This call covers:
Loss of privilege’s question
Fitting needed things into family lifestyle.
Letting kids pick activities.
Child being picky about clothing.
Daily routine.
Disagreeing appropriately question.

Support call 7-20-22

This call covers:
Question about calmness.
Modesty question.
Stewardships question.
Trans gender question.
Violence 6 year old.
Disagree appropriately question.
Managing large groups of youth.
only child question.
Dyslexia question.
Chore question.
Power struggling question.
Question about period clothing.

Being Your Child’s Safe Place

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It’s currently commonplace to see youth aggressively confronting adults when, not too long ago, that behavior would never have been condoned. And, sadly this aggressive behavior is being misinterpreted as behavior necessary for the emotional safety of the child. If parents want to be the ‘safe place’ for their child, then it’s vital that they …

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Support call 7-6-22

This call covers:
Feeling to busy as a family.
Do I correct every time?
Disagreeing appropriately about everything.
Children not wanting hugs.
Question about therapy.
Shy children.
ADHD question.

Self-Governed People Train Their Focus Forward

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“I think I ruined my child,” a mother told me in desperation as she explained some of the behavior problems and disconnection problems her teenage son was having. She was being honest with herself about mistakes that she might have made in her son’s upbringing. My heart ached for her. She might have unknowingly done …

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When Things Don’t Go Your Way…

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As nice as it would be to have complete control over outcomes, it isn’t humanly possible. Cause and effect is a principle of life that we can usually rely upon, but sometimes there seems to be another will for our days and experiences that turns our plans upside down. Sometimes these unexpected turns can create …

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Support call 3-22-22

This call covers:
Children requesting things from parents.
Children wanting to give feedback to parent.
Personal study time and recourses.
helping children with speech delays get calm and express properly.
Helping people who have not been successful with TSG.
Getting over dad being not in Childs life.

Support call 3-9-2022

This call covers:
Helping one self emotionally and cognitively.
6 year-old not obeying at home or school.
13 year old getting distracted and bored often.
Child not doing chores and not caring about the extra chore.
Fun things to do as a family.
Children asking questions about instructions.

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