Mentor Sessions

Support Call 4-05-2023

This call covers:

In Need of Clarity in using Self-Government…Something doesn’t feel right.
Opportunity to meet Porter
Rule of 3
Calming Down for Children 8 and older before entering the rule of 3
4 Year old extremely strong willed
Driving and Following Instructions
Keeping calm while being sick
No answers between siblings
How family and mentor meetings look with the booklets
Using skills in public
Time limit for Rule of Three instructions
Reading “Roles” with older children

Support Call 3-22-2023

This call covers:

Teen Caught In Between
Where to Start?
Sitting Still
Disrespect Toward Teachers At School
Follow Up On Teen Sneaking Cell Phone
Young siblings snapping at each other
Success story!

Support call 11-30-21

This call covers:
TJEd phases of learning.
People getting worked up before bed.
Truth of calm and lies of worry.
Creating a vision for the siblings.
questions about mentor sessions.

Support call 1-6-21

This call covers:
Pre-teaching concepts before implementing them.
Mentor meeting suggestions.
Siblings hating each other.
Rule of three for strong willed child.
Pre-teaching big changes.
Finding motivation to stick with TSG.

Support call 11-10-2020

This call covers:
Leading children away from being gay.
not always saying “I need you to” when giving an instruction.
Helping children to process having a gay sibling.
Making mentor meetings more fun.

Support Call 10-27-20

This Call Covers:
Finding good books for children to read
Creating a culture where consequences count
Helping children who identify as gay
Dealing with children who rebel

Support Call 9-30-20

This Call Covers:
Help for parents who are feeling overwhelmed
Starting TSG with “hard” teenagers
Punishment vs. Correction for children with disabilities
Following the TSG scripts
Extra chores for children who won’t do them
Helping older children with friend problems and proper boundaries

Support Call 9-17-20

This Call Covers:
Being an introverted parent with very energetic children
Helping teenagers learn respect
Helping children not masturbate at a young age
Differentiating between family ties and need to agree with others
Verbal abuse among siblings
Creating proper tone and boundaries with a spouse

Support Call 8-26-20

This Call Covers:
Helping children keep a calm voice, face, and body
Older children who are bullies
The Rule of Three
Reinvigorating your TSG efforts

Support Call 7-15-20

This Call Covers:
What to do when your children are out of control, but still have appointments to go to
How parents change for older children
Helping older children develop social skills
Mission-focused scheduling

Support Call 6-24-20

This Call Covers:

Helping siblings solve disputes

Anxiety and pets

Manipulation during correction

Success Stories!

Parenting: A House United 2nd Edition

Is your home in crisis? Do your children never do what they are told? Do you find yourself completely overwhelmed and hating to interact with your children? Do your children treat you with disrespect and cause contention at home? Are you out of control of your emotions as a parent too? If any of these descriptions sound like your house, then you might be in crisis and you will definitely benefit from reading this book. It is written for you. This book is also written for people who don‘t want to ever have a home like I have described above and for parents who want to have an effectively communicating family right from the very beginning of parenthood.

Couple’s Meeting Journal

The Couples Meeting Journal is used with the Family Meeting Journal and Mentoring Journal as integrated parts of the Teaching Self-Government family system.

The marital relationship affects all of the family relationships. If the relationship between the parents isn’t healthy, then all of the family relationships become weak.

The couple’s meeting sets the stage for strong family relationships. Parents can discuss issues with the family before meeting with the children, and speak unitedly about topics. That unity helps love, unity and happiness in the home to grow.

Support Call 2-19-20

This Call Covers:

Leaving the children in the care of others

Toddlers and calmly following instructions

Family time at home when it’s not family night

Keeping the whole family involved in family meetings

Guidelines for calm down spots

Other mentoring for support members

TSG when sick

Mercy and the rule of three

Anxious children and freak outs

Helping teens who want to be immoral

Support Call 2-5-20

This Call Covers:

Helping children develop productive hobbies

Legos and no answers

Young children and the calm down spot

Support Call 12-11-19

This Call Covers:

Spouses who are onboard with TSG, but the Implementation Course is too long

Consistency struggles as a parent

Getting a family adjusted to a new TSG system

Helping an emotionally manipulative child

Support Call 10-16-19

This Call Covers:

Helping children with confidence while maintaining humility

Depression in children after divorce

Keeping children focused and motivated for homeschool

Support Call 10-9-19

This Call Covers:

Everything Sleep and bedtime!

– young children who won’t stay in bed

– Older kids staying up late

– Negotiating bedtime

– Getting the whole family to bed on time

Support Call 10-2-19

This Call Covers:

Correcting children who won’t claim responsibility

Helping a child who has been out of control for weeks

Children who complain a lot

When to pressure children