Parenting Essentials Bundle

Over $730 value! Our smallest package that still includes the TSG Parenting Course. With this package you will have all the essentials to learn TSG in it’s entirety.

Parenting: A House United 2nd Edition

Is your home in crisis? Do your children never do what they are told? Do you find yourself completely overwhelmed and hating to interact with your children? Do your children treat you with disrespect and cause contention at home? Are you out of control of your emotions as a parent too? If any of these descriptions sound like your house, then you might be in crisis and you will definitely benefit from reading this book. It is written for you. This book is also written for people who don‘t want to ever have a home like I have described above and for parents who want to have an effectively communicating family right from the very beginning of parenthood.


Cue Cards

When I did foster care, I had a hard time remembering the new vocabulary I was required to use to help these troubled youth, so I made some cue cards to help myself.

When I first started teaching people the language of self-government and I saw them struggling to remember the new words, I remembered how much cue cards had helped me in the past. These easy to use cards make using the TSG scripts much easier, especially when you need them most.

We recently added 3 new cards, for a total of 8 cards!

Note: This is a supplementary resource to help you implement Teaching Self-Government in your home. To successfully use this product, we recommend you have an understanding of the Teaching Self-Government program as contained in Parenting: A House United, Roles, and Popular Parenting Methods, or in the TSG Parenting Course, or in Parenting Mastery.

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Choices Map

If you are familiar with the Teaching Self-Government structure of choices and consequences, then this Choices Map will help you keep your mind clear as you work to implement this system in your home.  The value of having a visual to work from when needing to know what comes next has been impactful for many parents.

This is a supplementary resource to help you implement Teaching Self-Government in your home. To successfully use this product, we recommend you have an understanding of the Teaching Self-Government program as contained in Parenting: A House United, Roles, and Popular Parenting Methods, or in the TSG Parenting Course, or in Parenting Mastery.

The Children's Choices Map has cartoon characters to help young children enjoy the map, and the standard Choices Map has no cartoon characers.

Choices Map

Teaching Self-Government Parenting Seminar

This is the recording of a day-long parenting seminar given by Nicholeen. You will learn the methods she uses to parent her children that have worked for thousands of families. Even if families only implement some of Nicholeen’s tested parenting principles, their family life will improve.

Popular Parenting Methods: Are They Really Working?

Do the popular parenting methods of today really work? Do they really teach us how to raise children well so that this generation of children become self-governing, responsible, happy adults?

Nicholeen examines popular parenting methods and the long-term results we can expect them to produce in our kids. She then invites the readers to start a parenting revolution in their own home, returning to the best parenting methods... methods that buck the popular parenting styles and restore our families and homes to places where children are trained to be responsible and self-governing.


Roles (Hardcover)

Roles. They define our rights, obligations, responsibilities, beliefs, and even who we are. How well do we each understand our respective roles? How do we teach our children about proper roles? How would the problems children and parents face change if they better understood roles? Aren't parents whether aggressive, passive or assertive always defining roles anyway? How do roles effect business relationships? Why do we see the roles in today's world wrapped around so much confusion and debate when it's impossible to escape roles? This book (published in 2016) makes roles easier to understand, and it shows how to strengthen roles and empower ourselves and those we live and work with to reach our full potentials.

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Family Meetings Journal

The Family Meeting Journal is an integrated part of the Teaching Self-Government family system. Writing in the journal to prepare for and take notes during family meetings will help keep you on track to creating a more united family.

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Mentoring Journal

This book facilitates mentor sessions with your children — an integrated part of the Teaching Self-Government family system.

A family plan makes everyone feel secure and unified.  Planning time is also a great time to improve relationships and strengthen bonds.  Not only should we have a family plan and a statement to use to keep the family focused, but we need to have regular personal check-up meetings with our children to bond and to offer support with new events and issues.  A family who plans together and regularly talks about those plans will find increased happiness and success in their family and personal lives.

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Couple's Meeting Journal

The Couples Meeting Journal is used with the Family Meeting Journal and Mentoring Journal as integrated parts of the Teaching Self-Government family system.

The marital relationship affects all of the family relationships. If the relationship between the parents isn’t healthy, then all of the family relationships become weak.

The couple’s meeting sets the stage for strong family relationships. Parents can discuss issues with the family before meeting with the children, and speak unitedly about topics. That unity helps love, unity and happiness in the home to grow.

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SODAS Journal

This S.O.D.A.S Journal, an important part of the Teaching Self-Government family system, includes a very basic review of using S.O.D.A.S for problem-solving training, practice ideas and many blank  pages for practicing the skills described.

The book is designed for an individual or a whole family to use to journal their S.O.D.A.S in every time a problem arises that needs to be examined.

It is also meant to be referred to as situations of the past resurface in the present.

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Support Group - 3 Months Free

The Teaching Self-Government Support Membership is designed to offer weekly TSG support for families as they are implementing self-government principles in their homes.

For many people, implementing a family self-government culture shift at home requires support. This is the reason Nicholeen made the TSG Parenting Course. She saw that families are more successful with self-government principles if they have support.

Original price was: $730.00.Current price is: $599.95. one time, and
$15.95 / month


  • TSG Parenting Course (details below, $499 Value)
  • Support Group for 3 months ($48 Value)
  • Parenting A House United 2nd Edition ($27.95 Value)
  • Cue Cards ($8 Value)
  • TSG Choices Map ($6.95 Value)
  • Teaching Self-Government Parenting Seminar ($59.95 Value)
  • Popular Parenting Methods: Are They Really Working? ($9.95 Value)
  • Roles: The Secret to Family, Business, and Social Success ($19.95 Value)
  • Couples Meeting Journal ($14.95 Value)
  • S.O.D.A.S. Journal ($14.95 Value)
  • Mentoring Journal ($14.95 Value)
  • Family Meetings Journal ($14.95 Value)

The TSG Parenting Course includes:

  • 10 modules including over 70 lessons
  • Teaching Self-Government 15-Lesson Family Tutorial included FREE (Viewable on the website, no DVD)
  • Online videos of actual parenting interactions
  • Priority on your questions in the weekly group mentor calls with Nicholeen (only available as long as you maintain membership to the Support Group)
  • Lifetime access to online course materials
  • More in-depth understanding of self-government and personal self-mastery
  • Stronger relationship strategies for husband/wife relationship
  • Suggested assignments for implementation success

Please note that the course material is online.