Cultural Rejection of Self-Government

by Nicholeen Peck


Self-government, a key principle of individual and societal freedom, is culturally rejected by some academics. This malicious movement, if adopted by society, will undermine our cultures, our families, our economies, and our personal empowerment. Luckily, the solution to cultural warfare has a simple yet powerful and effective solution; strengthen the people by strengthening the family.

In 1999, our family decided to take in troubled teens as a therapeutic treatment care foster family. The issues facing these troubled teens varied.To overcome these issues, it required extensive learning and effort for these youth. My husband and I knew the teens’ issues and behaviors could be fixed in time. But, what about the long-term futures of the children? What about their hearts and their personal empowerment? We wanted the teens who left our home to have the tools for self-government so that they could choose to live happy, productive lives no matter what they encountered during their life’s journeys.


Self-Government Is Powerful

Self-government is being able to determine the cause and effect of any given situation, and possessing a knowledge of your own behaviors so that you can control them. When a person self-governs: they analyze themselves honestly, make plans for solving problems and getting better outcomes, and deliberately chooses and acts upon their plans. A self-governed individual doesn’t make excuses for themselves, acknowledges their individual agency and personal power to choose, and exercises those powers deliberately while taking responsibility for the effects of those choices-the consequences.

Likewise, a society who self-governs analyzes themselves honestly, plans for success and accepts the consequences of their choices. A self-governed individual or society also  recognizes the agency and freedom to self-govern that every other person has, and respects that personal power by not forcing or controlling others.

Thomas Jefferson, one of the founders of the United States of America, was especially outspoken about the principle of self-government, and hoped that the USA would be a society who lived up to their duty and honor as a self-governing nation. He said:

“Every man, and every body of men on earth, possesses the right of self-government.” –Thomas Jefferson: Opinion on Residence Bill, 1790.

“Sometimes it is said that man cannot be trusted with the government of himself. Can he, then, be trusted with the government of others? Or have we found angels in the form of kings to govern him? Let history answer this question.” –Thomas Jefferson: 1st Inaugural, 1801.


The Rejection of Self-Government

Self-government is woven into our hearts when we learn, accept and practice this true principle. However, many people don’t learn how to govern themselves well because of the current trend in society to reject this principle. In past generations, self-government helped establish the United States of America and was openly supported socially as a principle, even if it was sometimes neglected or rejected in individual family or some governmental practices. However, currently, controlling academics and activist groups as well as self-serving and lackadaisical individuals are openly pushing for the rejection of self-government.

In Dr. Carol Swain’s book, Black Eye For America, she exposed the disturbing rejection of self-government when she quoted the Smithsonian National Museum of African American History and Culture’s 2020 guidelines for what society needs to reject for racial reasons. The guidelines instruct individuals to reject the following:

  • Individualism, individual autonomy, and self-reliance
  • Two parent homes
  • Objective, rational linear thinking
  • Cause and Effect
  • Math
  • Belief that hard work pays off
  • Property rights
  • Planning for the future and delaying gratification
  • Being polite

Let’s analyze the effects of accepting these guidelines.

  • Reject individualism, individual autonomy, and self-reliance.

To reject individualism is to embrace collectivism (Marxism). To reject individual autonomy is to embrace co-dependence and irresponsibility. Self-reliance is an aspect of all self-control, independence and interdependence. If rejected, then a person would think that everything that happens to them is someone else’s fault.

  • Reject two parent homes.

Even though not every home has two parents present to raise the children, I have never heard any of my single parent friends or single parents who come to me for support or help declare that being a single parent is best. They always talk about how hard single parenting is because it isn’t the ideal situation for their family, but that they are doing the best that they can. Social science has also overwhelmingly proven that statistically children fair better academically, socially, and morally when they come from two parent homes.

  • Reject objective, rational linear thinking.

If we reject “objective, rational, linear thinking,” then we are forced to encourage and embrace subjective, irrational, cyclical thinking. That sounds like a person thinking that they are their own god, they are emotionally entitled, and don’t feel a need to make any sense when talking. It sounds like a lot of the drama happening on TikTok and other social media platforms.

  • Reject “cause and effect”

To reject “cause and effect” is to reject the very definition of self-government and undermine human problem solving as well as science.

  • Reject math

The rejection of math, which is behind nearly all our technological and scientific advancements, is to reject progress and problem solving. Even if everyone isn’t good at math, we couldn’t live as we do without it.

  • Reject the belief that hard work pays off, property rights and delayed gratification.

The American dream is based on the idea that Americans can own, create, build, and repair whatever they are willing to work hard and wait for. The rejection of “hard work, property rights, planning for the future and delaying gratification” is the rejection of the American dream as well as the rejection of key principles of freedom.

  • Reject being polite.

Finally, the rejection of “being polite” is embracing being rude, unkind, uncaring, uncivilized, and animalistic. To reject a basic sign of respect, such as politeness, is to promote war, selfishness, social and emotional isolation, anxiety, broken relationships, drama, bullying, abuse, objectification, bias, and more.


The Simple Solution

When something is simple it is plain, ordinary, and single. The simple solution to the rejection of our principles of freedom and self-government is to practice and learn self-government ourselves and teach them in our homes.

The most basic governmental structure in society is the family. It is one single group of people who are to actively work together to nurture each other. Nurturing is to strengthen, train, nourish, grow, and correct. These are the basic functions of families.

If parents regularly analyze themselves: their hearts, minds, and behaviors, then children will see self-government as a truth/principle to live by. Self-government is hard work, it takes time, often a whole lifetime. It relies upon understanding “cause and effect” and problem solving, and is the very essence of self-reliance. Self-government is powerful! When parents are self-governed, they are calm, connected, nurturing, kind, and consistent in their teaching. This type of teaching imparts a self-government legacy to their children.

Just because some people are rejecting self-government, doesn’t mean that our children need to believe in the manipulations. Show them, in your home culture, that the principles that society rejects are truths that you stand to defend. Show the children, with your example, that self-government is possible and powerful!


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