Support Call Archive
- Segment 1: Setting Boundaries With New Friends & Social Training
- Segment 2: The Inspiration Pathway to Learning Piano
- Segment 3: Sexual Addictions and A.D.D.
- Segment 4: Rule of 3
- Segment 5: Small Success Story – Child Going to Class at Church
- Segment 6: Five-Year-Old With a Gas Can
- Segment 7: Definition Of Love
- Segment 8: Homeschool Helps
- Segment 9: Calm Down Spots For Toddlers
- Segment 10: The Burden of Emotional Weight
- Segment 11: Clingy Four-Year-Old With Social Fears
- Happy Birthday Nicholeen & Questions to Implementation Course Members
- How to Talk to Kids About Sex
- 7-Year-Old Out of Instructional Control
- Avoiding the Urge to CONTROL
- Disagreeing Appropriately Every Single Time
We had an amazing call today and Nicholeen was on fire! Did you feel it?
- Announcements
- Gluten-Free Eating
- Four-Year-Old Screaming “I'm calm!”
- Five Social Lessons Class – Girl's Camp
- Irreverence & Silliness
- Helping the Strong-Willed Child
- Appropriate Boundaries & Disagreeing Appropriately With Your Spouse
- No more TV at Our House
- Boundaries for Climbing Babies
- Unconditional Love
- Appropriate Ages to Talk to My Children About Sex and Pornography
On this call we had a guest speaker, Aneladee Milne. In the call Aneladee gets real with Nicholeen about
- How to fight the plague of addiction
- What to do if you even suspect your child is addicted
- What could happen if you don't talk about it
- Story from Nicholeen of when she didn't listen to that feeling
- The Creepy Guy Detector- learning how to read addictions in others
- Statistics: As of 2012 60% of 8 year old boys have been exposed to porn. Of those, 60% of those exposed become addicted. By age 11, 94% of boys have been exposed.
- The Myth that children don't get addicted to porn and if they do get exposed they can easily overcome it. Signs of how to know when someone is addicted
- Acknowledging feelings & coming to terms that it happened
- Story from Nicholeen of what she did the first time she found out<
- What happens in the brain of a porn addict: Synaptic pathways are killed
- Natural-man instincts to provide, protect, & pro-create
- Pattern of how addicts choose to do it again
- How to get training on helping others stuck in addictions
- How to avoid communicating feelings of shame and guilt that will drive them deeper into their addictions
- New part of dating: Women are the holders of Virtue- How to help the guy
- True story of her daughter dating addict & her son being addicted
- How to talk to an 8 yr old about porn: our bodies are so amazing and they are under attack
- Food addictions
Here is what we discussed in this call.
- Invitation to participate in a TSG Survey- Help us give you what you want
- Story on Family Tutorial DVD- Why is the footage so rough?
- How do I slow down?
- How do we recover after lots of Play Time with other families?
- Summer homeschool
- Recommended music for home refinement
- Stuck on Step 2, Couple's Meetings
- What to do if my 13-yr-old daughter decides to leave, or if she is ever gone when I go to check on her at night
- What to do when younger children (ages 3 & 5) won’t stay in time-out
- How to introduce TSG to my 15-yr-old son
* On this call we had some technical difficulties with the computer, so there is a clip that may sound out of order because it was pasted in the place where it was on topic, which was different the live call- just so you know. Thanks for your patience and understanding.
- Nicholeen introduces Pennie Rumsey & Invites us to email Glenn Beck
- Awesome Success story of 20 month old boy doing Self-Government! If he can, anyone can!
- Play Time Rules
- Parents getting Consequences
- How to teach Disagreeing Appropriately for ages 3, 5, 8, 12? & How do I teach tolerance and not taking offense or getting annoyed for things that are harmless?
- Motivation to Change, Lying & Candy
- Food Addictions & Dishonesty
- Rule of 3- Where do I go from here?
- Controlling Siblings
- Raccoon Circle - Family Unity
- Mommy Blues –Needing Space
- Links & Announcements
This Gem teaches about tone. Nicholeen gave this answer on a Conference Call that asked "How did you actually train yourself to be calm?" She talks about looking into their eyes with trust and seeing down into the child's heart. This is an amazing piece and I used it to practice my tone hundreds of times. ~Pennie
Questions from Today's call, Nicholeen talked about:
- Mutual Respect
- Begging and Negative Attention Seeking
- SOCIAL ADDICTIONS-Breaking Computer Rules
- SOCIAL ADDICTIONS-Cell phones at church
- TSG for a 2 yr old
- Anxiety
- Delaying Consequences
What do I do with TSG when babysitting other peoples kids?
How can I talk to others about TSG?
Magic Pill solutions v.s. Work and Effort
Tough their hearts- it begins with empathy and not judging them
Pre-Teach
WATCH FOR A FUTURE TRAINING on How to Teach TSG to Others
- Using TSG while babysiting other people's children
- Having respect for parent authority.
- How to handle several different scenarios, such as threatening, whining, controlling others, micromanagement, etc.
- What todo when your babysitters don't know the TSG language.
- Using treats for rewards
