Loss of privilege under 7

1. I have a 3 and 5 yr old boys. What happens if they have earned loss of privilege for 3 hours and in the middle of their time they choose to have a bad attitude and don't want to complete a chore? Does the loss of privilege start over once they have regained instructional control?

2. Also I just want to make sure I understand you right, a 3 and 5 year old are supposed to do chores the whole time they are in their loss of privilege? My boys have a hard time keeping a good attitude through one chore let alone 3 hours of chores. I am willing to do whatever it takes, but just want to make sure I understand right.

3. What do you do if a child is taking a really long time to do a daily chore like dish washer or feeding the dog? What if they take a real long time doing a chore on an earned chore?

4. I have a 9 month old who is getting into stuff he isn't suppose to, how do I start to train him in obedience? What can I do to lay a strong foundation in obedience and following instruction?