Support Call Archive
This call covers:
- Arbinger Institute: Leadership and Self-Deception
- Defining freedom and explaining that it has consequences
This call covers:
- Arbinger Institute: Leadership and Self-Deception
- Defining freedom and explaining that it has consequences
Nicholeen talks about sand-bagging in preparation for a flood and compares it to being prepared.
Questions:
- I'm trying to learn every thing I can about your program and teaching self-government. Im going to be doing a music class. I know one of the children I have will be a challenge and im not sure about the other two. (In the last two months Nicholeen wrote an article on this subject.)
- We have a real concern. We are finding torn out magazine ads and hides the magazine images under his brothers bed. When the rouse doesn't work he hides then under his bed. We have tried a lot of things and they haven't helped. We are not sure what to do!?
- When children have earned an extra chore do you have them stop what they are doing?
Nicholeen talks about sand-bagging in preparation for a flood and compares it to being prepared.
Questions:
- I'm trying to learn every thing I can about your program and teaching self-government. Im going to be doing a music class. I know one of the children I have will be a challenge and im not sure about the other two. (In the last two months Nicholeen wrote an article on this subject.)
- We have a real concern. We are finding torn out magazine ads and hides the magazine images under his brothers bed. When the rouse doesn't work he hides then under his bed. We have tried a lot of things and they haven't helped. We are not sure what to do!?
- When children have earned an extra chore do you have them stop what they are doing?
On this call we discussed:
- Teaching Self Government to older children and spouses
- What if my husband supports the children when they lie?
- Young children "going out"
- Dealing with Children that Argue
Nicholeen shares two stories. One about Londyn and her mouth spreader and relates it to her friend learning about parenting and how to implement new skills. The second story is about her compost pile. She talks about vision, family relationships, the Hero Generation, preparing our families.
Questions:
- Is it okay for your family to meet at a spiritual place of worship in our family vision?
- My oldest child is 20 years old and no longer lives with us. How do I share our family vision with her? I have asked her to say daily and memorize it.
Nicholeen shares two stories. One about Londyn and her mouth spreader and relates it to her friend learning about parenting and how to implement new skills. The second story is about her compost pile. She talks about vision, family relationships, the Hero Generation, preparing our families.
Questions:
- Is it okay for your family to meet at a spiritual place of worship in our family vision?
- My oldest child is 20 years old and no longer lives with us. How do I share our family vision with her? I have asked her to say daily and memorize it.
Nicholeen shares 3 Tips.
Tip 1: Talks about how to help those who are feeling overwhelmed with life or feel anxiety about whether their communication is received properly. (This includes: mothering, parenting, homeschooling, etc.)
Tip 2: Talks about vision and how we achieve becoming who we want to be come or what mission we want to obtain.
Tip 3: Talks about capacity and how to get everything accomplished.
Questions:
- I'm having major issues with my 12 year old son. I don't want to seem him, he is extremely out of control and acting like he is 7 years old. What do I do?
- Will I have access to this program and material after the initial 10-12 weeks? The support calls are monthly subscription to continue. But you will still have access to the information on the Implementation course. (Updated as of summer 2014)
- I've been struggling with our 20 year vision for our family since I first heard you talk. How do I make and achieve this?
- What does a Time-out look like for little children as compared to the Rule of 3?
- How is Teaching Self Government different from Love and Logic (giving choices)?
- My 3 year old threw a trantrum and I had to take him into the hallway and leave my other children inside by themselves, what do you recommend for this type of situation?
- I am struggling with distractions while trying to run the household and a homeschool. How do I know if am being successful?
- Nicholeen recommends balancing and prioritizing. Top 6 Priorities
Nicholeen shares 3 Tips.
Tip 1: Talks about how to help those who are feeling overwhelmed with life or feel anxiety about whether their communication is received properly. (This includes: mothering, parenting, homeschooling, etc.)
Tip 2: Talks about vision and how we achieve becoming who we want to be come or what mission we want to obtain.
Tip 3: Talks about capacity and how to get everything accomplished.
Questions:
- I'm having major issues with my 12 year old son. I don't want to seem him, he is extremely out of control and acting like he is 7 years old. What do I do?
- Will I have access to this program and material after the initial 10-12 weeks? The support calls are monthly subscription to continue. But you will still have access to the information on the Implementation course. (Updated as of summer 2014)
- I've been struggling with our 20 year vision for our family since I first heard you talk. How do I make and achieve this?
- What does a Time-out look like for little children as compared to the Rule of 3?
- How is Teaching Self Government different from Love and Logic (giving choices)?
- My 3 year old threw a trantrum and I had to take him into the hallway and leave my other children inside by themselves, what do you recommend for this type of situation?
- I am struggling with distractions while trying to run the household and a homeschool. How do I know if am being successful?
- Nicholeen recommends balancing and prioritizing. Top 6 Priorities
Nicholeen shares some stories about the importance of having a vision for you and your children. She is often contacted by individuals who have see in the BBC show. She tells about a girl who is lost and not sure what to do with her life and is considering apprenticing as a piercing person.
- What if your child (or teenager) doesn’t care about the family vision or says it is stupid? That’s what seems to be happening with one of our kids.Nicholeen shares 5 ideas about vision.
- I have a question about the content of vision. Would it be bad to make our family being in the rodeo as part of our vision?Or do I just change the vision if my children's interests change.
- 7 year old not calm after rule of 3 and needs to be taken out of the room. I can't take him due to back it sends me into panic mode. He doesn't like to be taken there. But he is attention seeking with the tantrum. 5 second rule. Power struggle mode. Soft hold. Exception to rule. Be intuitive. Special moment, counseling session. I noticed good. I noticed every so often you arent happy. I decided in order to help you be happy to do a soft hold. You are in bondage to your emotions and I am going to free you.
- Help! I need advice as soon as possible. We just found out that our 17 year old has been drinking he was twice the legal limit and has been smoking 4 cigerettes per day. He needs to go to detox and a smoking cessation program. What do we do?
- My 17 year old daughter makes mountains out of mole holes in regards to computer time and her social life. She will get really upset. She's is a really good girl and the extreme is that she recently started cutting herself. Part of it is my fault since we really don't have a structure in place for.
