Struggling with naughty 5 year-old daughter

This question is from Kami Lewis:

Nicholeen,

I am struggling with my 5 year old daughter. I have 4 children. Ages 9,7,5 and 18 months. My daughter does all sorts of naughty things to get attention. For example she will take toys and hit people with them, push her little sister over, hurt sister intentionally, Run around the house screaming, tease her older brother until he explodes etc. I think this is because she feels lost in the chaos of a big family. Do you have any advice for me?

I read your book a few years ago and I also have your 4 children’s books. Thanks so much for your help!

Kami Lewis.