Mom feeling like a victim

Hello, how can TSG principles help my family and especially me? My kids and husband seem focused on themselves, entitled and talk down/disrespect me. So I am feeling hurt and hopeless and powerless often. Everyone has outbursts of anger. We are lacking thoughtfulness and empathy. I get defensive when criticized by husband and feel pulled into contention and arguing. I feel through my scripture study of late that God wants me to be a woman, having more mature and empowering thoughts and behavior. What could a path of growth and change look like for me and what is a first step? Thank you for your help and principles. I find the underlying foundations of truth, love and change of heart to be missing in other parenting classes.