Expectations for a 10 month old 😂

At 4 months old we started doing deep breaths especially before nap time and that really helped him drift off even if a touch overtired. Now he’s almost 10 months and I’m not sure if we should work on certain things or accept them as typical baby life. For example, fussing to be picked up if I put him down for 10 minutes to get something done and he’s not in the mood to play by himself. Or pulling off my glasses or his dad’s beard. Could you give some examples of things we should accept as normal vs what could be worked on? Also, if we accept them now, what are the first signs that they could be worked on? If you can’t tell, I love being proactive 😂😂