Daughters relationship

Hello Nicholeen,

I’d like to get your advice about our youngest two girls. They are now 14 and 16. They are both homeschooled and are together most the time along with their older brother who just turned 18. The youngest, Marie, has a very strong outgoing personality. We moved to this area two years ago. They have made a few friends, and whenever one friend is over they both hang out with the friend. Michelle is more reserved and quiet, and is now feeling like she doesn’t get as much attention with friends even when the friend is her age.

Michelle has talked to me twice about not getting attention around their friends and also said she always felt like she’s responsible for Marie. Before Teaching Self Government, Marie was was pretty out of control. She would have angry outbursts at friends, which would affect Michelle’s friendships.

I talked to Marie and told her that her friendship with Michelle comes first. She has been making an effort. Also, spoke to Michelle alone and both of them together. I was wondering if you have more advice. I’m considering having her have time alone with friends.

Thank you.