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Angry little girl

Ah, 3 Year Olds!

My 3 year old is the one I'm really struggling with. She doesn't take a NO answer well at all, even when we practice.  She does really well when we practice, but when it comes to doing it for real, then we ha... more
Child pouting

Helping Young Children Accept "No" Answers

"Nicholeen, I was wondering how you teach these principles to the younger children.  My children are (almost) 8, (almost) 6, 3.5, 20 months, and a 2 week old.  (not that I expect to be doing this with the new... more
Mother and daughter talking

Public Parenting

"I get tired of being the only parent trying to get my kids to behave properly, and having my nieces and kids’ friends look at me like I’m the wicked witch or something!  I want my kids to be able to enjoy... more
Smiling Children

Dealing With Negative Social Influences

Nicholeen, My children are usually very well-behaved away from home, and I take them with me to most places I go--the grocery and clothes stores, church functions, friends homes, relatives homes, we have even t... more
Laughing bedtime story

Prioritizing Our Time...Because It's All We Have!

I was faced with a decision.  Should I write my daily blog, or should I sit in my daughter's room telling exciting stories to my children?  We have friends in town staying with us, and it is tradition in... more
Blue flax flower

A Parable

     Sometimes when parents start teaching their children how to govern themselves, the children start to fight against the new system.  Many people don't cope with change well, and children are often more... more
Woman swimming

Triathlon VS Parenting: The Comparisons

          In my seminars I tell a story about when I did the swimming leg of a triathlon and the life lessons I learned from that experience.  I am not going to restate all the lessons we discuss in d... more
Mother and daughter arguing

Commitment Renewal

I was talking with a dear friend about parenting.  She told me that she was doing so good with the Teaching Self Government principles in her home for about a month.  She said she really saw results whenever... more
Birds and bees

When do you talk about "it"?

I have to ask it because it’s something I struggle with talking about to my kids . . . when do you talk to your children about sex?  How do you go about it so that they understand that sex is actually a goo... more

Lights, Camera, Action...With Energy!

For the last month I have been co-directing a play; Shakespeare's "The Tempest". Our matinee performance started under lots of stress.  We were missing our stage hand, two of our actresses, and... more