TSG Motivation

Hi Nicholeen,
I enrolled in TSG in the spring of this year. I was so motivated and committed to doing the work to help my family heal. During that time I saw and felt a lot of growth in myself and my family. It was one of the most joyful times for me as a mother. When summer hit and I knew our schedule was going to be less predictable, I still had plans for how I was going to maintain TSG in my home. With time, however, my motivation decreased, and I returned to old habits and reactions to my kids. I want to return to the same motivation I had when I first enrolled, but I'm doubting myself and my ability to maintain TSG. I get overwhelmed when several of my children need to be corrected at the same time. I feel unable to respond to every thing they need to be corrected on. I also tend to lean toward the bully/fear parenting, so it's not hard for me to see when they need to be corrected, I just don't go about it in a way I want.

How can I keep going, even when I'm not feeling motivated? I want the results of the work, but am having a hard time keeping up with the work.

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