Rationale

Hello,

I can’t remember where I heard it, but there was a list of rationales kids could use when reporting vs tattling. Ie, boundaries, pleasant, I want to say there were a bunch of that started with C? I may be mixing two different things as far as the rationale used for family meeting, and reasons for reporting. I wondered if you had that list(s) again that you could give. And go over what the steps are for reporting versus tattling are