Motivation

We have been integrating TSG into our home since November. We are starting to make headway in it being automatic for some things, but it also feels like because we have been doing it for a few months we are hitting a stall. Our tolerances are still too high, but now the difference is that our kids stay just below our “losing it” and “now we will pull out the cards and really get serious” threshold so they rarely earn chores or major maintenances because they stay below our high tolerance threshold. We have weekly family meetings and mentor meetings and we do have couple’s meetings, but they have become lax. Everything just feels 1/2 baked. We ready the mission statement 3+ times a week and review the Standard and Economy as needed. We seem to forget the things we add to the family economy that we discussed in the family meeting. How can my spouse and I get back into implementing this and stop the high tolerances when we don’t really even notice them? We could use a swift kick in the pants. Thanks.