4 year old extremely strong willed

Hi there,

We just started with the program. But I’m a little confused what to do for my strong willed 4 year old if he refuses to follow instructions and refuses to do his consequences. In your chart you show the calm down spot but what if he remains calm but just doesn’t do what he’s asked? Also when he is screaming he has been in the calm down spot for over 1.5 hours at a time. He refuses to get calm and take deep breaths. Let me know what you would advise.