Social Skills

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Modern Times Call for Pioneering Parenting

Bethany, a troubled parent, recently shared a shocking story that all too often illustrates what parents nowadays are dealing with: “After we caught our 11-year-old son sending pornographic photos of himself to strangers on Snapchat, we took his phone away. We told him he could have it back in a couple of weeks, but that …

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Can Teenagers Conquer the Culture of Disrespect Alone?

For years I’ve heard adults complain about how disrespectful teenagers are with a tone that suggests the teenagers should fix their problem. I found myself wondering if it was really totally the teenagers’ problem, and if it was possible for teenagers to fix the culture of disrespect all alone. After many years of helping families …

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Support Call 5-12-17

This call covers:

  • A list of the 5 teaching styles.
  • Handling phone restrictions and guaranteed resistance.
  • Addressing odd attention-seeking behaviors.
  • How to spend free time away from the TV.

Support Call 4-21-17

This call covers:

  • Setting phone limits for children with smartphones.
  • Young children who hit and bite.
  • Affirmation during a correction.
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10 Thoughts Children Have That Might Surprise Parents

“He’s not breathing really well, and they tell us he’ll likely die in a day or two…” a mother was explaining to a group of adults about her father-in-law, and her young son’s grandpa. Her son was sitting in an adjacent room with his good friend, but he wasn’t playing as his mother likely thought …

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6 Steps for Making Siblings Friends, Not Foes

One night, after my parents left to go on a date, my brother and I started fighting. I vividly remember the fight getting to the point where both of us were standing on a couch threatening each other with broomsticks. This sad memory changed me. Many times over the years I’ve had that memory return, …

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Truth Be Told…Influence of Family is Astounding!

Even though there’s violence dotting the globe, the largest battle of our day isn’t physical. It’s a war of words. All these words are supposed to lead the listeners to truth. Often the talk feels cheap even though the claim is each new idea, paradigm and argument is the most valuable. Is this word war …

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Support Call 1-13-17

This call covers:

  • Family history project planning
  • Son has no privileges and we’re just starting the program. How does the rule of three work with that?
  • Having physical limitations that have become a hinderance instead of being helpful
  • Teaching children empathy
  • Setting boundaries for learning responsibilities
  • Talking about and setting boundaries for dating
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Have Millennials Been “Dealt a Bad Hand?”

Those born approximately 1982-2004 are often referred to as Millennials. They’ve been teased in countless online videos, articles and casual conversations. They’re often mocked for the way they see themselves, view the world, believe where happiness comes from, and for their position on the purpose of life. The characteristic of their generation that is most …

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Support Call 12-30-16

This call covers:

  • How to deal with a child who “plays dumb”
  • How much family time is the right amount?
  • Training your children socially
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Resolutions Are All the Same, and That’s the Way it Should Be!

No matter how many different types of resolutions we choose to write down and work on this coming year, all the items on our lists are actually just one resolution. At first glance this statement may seem like an attempt to simplify resolutions to make successfully accomplishing them easier. But understanding that all resolutions point …

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Support Call 12-16-16

This call covers:

  • Thoughts on being an older mother
  • Shame VS. Guilt (“mini class”)
  • Coming up with better consequences
  • Letting go of negativity
  • Is it a need for attention or just being overwhelmed?

Support Call 9-16-16

This call covers:

  • Aged 14 daughter doesn’t want to change and follow the family vision. What to do about it.
  • Being homeschooled and trying to strengthen the family’s social culture.
  • How to help sibling rivalry between toddlers.
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How to Help Your Children Keep Your Standards When They’re Away From Home

Parents painstakingly teach morals, principles, values and good judgment to their growing children in hopes that their virtues will be protected and their standards upheld throughout their lives. Yet, day after day youth are tested in social situations. Sometimes they stumble as they compare their values and morals to the world’s ever-changing social standards and …

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1 Skill To Improve Calmness For The Whole Family

While swimming with my family one day the calmness of our pool experience was interrupted by one very loud, very stressed mother. If only this mother was able to see the hearts of her children and everyone else in the pool area. If she could have taken a moment to do just one simple skill …

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Support Call 6-17-16

This call covers:

  • Summer tip! Helping family relationships stay strong with friends in the picture more.
  • My 8-year-old daughter has a friend who will invite her to play, then leave her and go play with other people without warning. Ideas?
  • 13-year-old son will NOT talk about the topic of changing schools. He immediately gets angry and refuses to discuss it. What do I do?
  • (This call had some technical difficulties on the second question. We apologize. Please read the notes for more on it.)

Support Call 6-10-16

This call covers:

  • 13-year-old son was over-socialized when he was young. Needs help socializing properly.
  • Preparing children for family gatherings with cousins who don’t have the same family culture as us.

Support Call 6-03-16

This call covers:

  • Summer activites planned!
  • Friends and family are influencing my children and I have to teach them TSG all over again when they finish spending time with them.
  • My age-9 son is defiant, manipulative, and self-harms himself when he doesn’t get his way.

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