Support call 12-14-22

This call covers:
Separation anxiety in 6yo son
Sexual Grooming
Our Home Is Too Serious
Sibling Love
Stay Emotionally Intact In A Storm of Emotions
Success Story and Question:
I Didn’t Hear You, And Too Much Disagreeing Appropriately
wake up time
son getting things off his chest

Support call 12-22-21

This call covers:
Setting boundaries with son that has a pornography problem.
Online gaming addiction.
Where extra chores come from.
Child justifying behavior because she is the middle child.
Autistic child taking a long time to accept his 24 hour loss of privilege’s.
More then one child not following instructions at the same time.
daughter experimenting with being gay and I feel powerless.
Rule of three question.

Children, The Sexual Target?

We can’t afford to serve two masters anymore because our children’s hearts and minds are a prize to be won. For years now, society and media have dually honored both animalistic sexual license as well as humanely nurturing the innocence of children and admiring the goodness of God. Unsurprisingly, basic nurturing and some of God’s …

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Support call 2-17-21

This call covers:
Boundaries with 4year olds
The sex talk
Disagreeing appropriately with siblings
homeschool schedule
Staying with children at the calm down spot
Adult child influencing other children in a way not wanted
picking teachers for children
helping young child learn to accept “no” without falling apart

Support call 11-25-2020

This call covers:
Overcoming lying.
Children deliberately peeing their pants
Using rule of three for whining.
The sex talk.
Stealing candy from siblings.
Son continually peeing himself and he know it.
Trusting kids and media use.

Support call 11-10-2020

This call covers:
Leading children away from being gay.
not always saying “I need you to” when giving an instruction.
Helping children to process having a gay sibling.
Making mentor meetings more fun.

Parenting: A House United 2nd Edition

Is your home in crisis? Do your children never do what they are told? Do you find yourself completely overwhelmed and hating to interact with your children? Do your children treat you with disrespect and cause contention at home? Are you out of control of your emotions as a parent too? If any of these descriptions sound like your house, then you might be in crisis and you will definitely benefit from reading this book. It is written for you. This book is also written for people who don‘t want to ever have a home like I have described above and for parents who want to have an effectively communicating family right from the very beginning of parenthood.

Support Call 2-19-20

This Call Covers:

Leaving the children in the care of others

Toddlers and calmly following instructions

Family time at home when it’s not family night

Keeping the whole family involved in family meetings

Guidelines for calm down spots

Other mentoring for support members

TSG when sick

Mercy and the rule of three

Anxious children and freak outs

Helping teens who want to be immoral

Support Call 1-15-20

This Call Covers:

How to help my family understand my vision

Micromanaging and touchy children

Masturbation in teenagers

Helping a spouse change their attitude

Support Call 6-7-19

This Call Covers:

Helping children adapt to the college experience

Improving self esteem in teenagers

Emotionally reactive children

Loss of privliges and the rule of three

Support Call 3-21-19

This Call Covers:

Leaving children on their own

Talking about sex with children

Helping children with their chores.

kids on computer

Public Databases Destroying “Safe Places” For Children

I’ve been writing about the best practices in raising children since 2006. During this time, I’ve covered a variety of subjects, but never did I think I would end up writing about a topic like this. No matter where you live or how you choose to educate your children, this database scandal could likely affect …

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Support Call 4-14-17

This call covers:

  • How to help aged 5 child get ready in the morning.
  • Controlling unwanted, inappropriate thoughts (teenage son).
  • Becoming more focused on self-government and stressing less about homeschool.
  • Dealing with disobedience in the early stages of TSG.
  • Helping younger children want to get out the door on time.
  • Resolving expectations and entitlement.

Solutions for Today’s Teenage Sexual Problems

The other day I was attending a very heated legislative committee meeting in Utah where changes to the way state school teachers teach about sexual health were proposed. I recognized someof the legislators were not acknowledging the real solution to the problems facing teenagers. Debate and public comments on the proposed changes went on for …

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Support Call 10-07-16

This call covers:

  • Emotional bullying.
  • Child can be super sweet, but is mostly negative and rude.
  • How to inspire motivation.
  • Daughter demands time to calm down before starting Rule of Three. What to do.
  • Out of instructional control off and on over multiple days.
  • Not following instructions, but not out of control. What is supposed to happen.
  • True and false information for Utah Sex-ed and lying.

Support Call 8-26-16

This call covers:

  • Things not being in order and the tone not being right. Feeling overwhelmed and in chaos. Friend lets daughter run around naked and thinks it’s appropriate. Social modesty and modesty of the heart. And, about JK Rowling and channeling.
  • Son won’t give mother time of day. It’s like she’s not even there. How to fix that relationship.
  • What classics canchildren read beside JK Rowling books?

Support Call 4-29-16

This call covers:

  • Helping husband with his tone.
  • Son is having trouble keeping his thoughts away from other men.
  • Follow-up with age 5 son who hits, bites, and kicks.
  • Husband not on board and son is addicted to electronics and is physical.

Support Call 3-25-16

This call covers:

  • A woman of refinement
  • What’s happening at the UN
  • Correction from last week and disagree appropriately
  • High tolerances and self-criticism
  • Graduating from TSG skills and Rule of three for young children, as well as the Calm Down Spot

Support Call 2-19-16

This call covers:

  • Time flies as your children get older.
  • Teaching my children love instead of toleration.
  • It’s hard to stay consistent, but even more so with HF autism.
  • I know I need to connect with my children, but I don’t want to.
  • You have a section in your book that talks about telling your children about sex. Why are you not in favor of sex ed in schools?