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Respect

Support Call 7-17-15

This call covers:

  • Is "going to the realms of fantasy" the same as negative attention-seeking?
  • Children learning to follow instructions with or without the specific TSG language.
  • How to use TSG with an aged 16 daughter who knows no boundaries and who must go to court for her behaviors.
  • When given a "no" answer, how to recognize and correct manipulation.
  • My husband thinks I'm too quick to correct behaviors and he doesn't like the 24-hrs loss of privileges "punishment."
  • How to have family meetings with grown children.

Support Call 6-26-15

This call covers:

  • Taking the time to disagree appropriately shows respect to the other person
  • How to use TSG when babysitting your siblings or someone else's children
  • Does moving a lot contribute to social anxiety?
  • How well does TSG work with High-Functioning Aspergers?
  • Is everything in a Family Standard a standing instruction?

Support Call 2-15-13

  • Using TSG while babysiting other people's children
  • Having respect for parent authority.
  • How to handle several different scenarios, such as threatening, whining, controlling others, micromanagement, etc. 
  • What to do when your babysitters don't know the TSG language. 
  • Using treats for rewards

Bodies For Sale! Teaching Modesty

“...Everyone is selling something,” I said as I talked to a young girl one evening.   Her mother had just made a comment about how the outfit the girl was wearing was “too revealing” and so she wou... more

Conference Call 11-16-12

This call covers: 

  • Correcting behavior while traveling and what to do when you have different standards from the people you are visiting. Falling off the TSG wagon and getting back up. What to do when you spouse isn't on board.
  • 14 year old manipulative son and Disagreeing Appropriately
  • Loss of privileges on a Sunday. Daughter plans her loss of privileges to happen when she can't lose them.
  • Discouragement
  • When and how to teach the family the TSG program
  • Children's friends who keep bringing electronic devices to the house. What to do about it. 
  • Role Play Ideas for making it more fun, staying away from bribing and the upcoming video
  • Pulling yourself out of a slump

Support Call 11-11-11

This call covers:

  • 11-11-11! Such a fun day! And, starting presale for first Children's book, "Londyn Larae Says Okay"
  • Instituting a "no sleep overs" policy. Age 16 son is furious about it. 
  • Putting in place specific consequences for things such as running away, suicide attempts, etc. 
  • What happens to 18-year-olds when they go to jail and misbehave. 

“My Child Won’t Listen to Me”

I have a daughter who frequently rages and manipulates. She is out of control almost as often as she is in control. When I talk to her about her behaviors she doesn't listen. She looks away and tries to manipul... more
Guy hugging girl

Appropriate Touch

"You mentioned you have touching rules for friends, family, and neighbors–do you mind sharing them?" There are rules and boundaries for touching for different groups of people. Know what they are and make su... more