Out of Instructional Control | Teaching Self-Government

Out of Instructional Control

Parenting: A House United

"Parenting: A House United" is based on Nicholeen’s popular seminar series Teaching Self-Government. This book shows parents the communication skills they need to teach children to govern themselves. With t... more

Support Call 10-6-17

This Call Covers:

  • Children still earning lots of extra chores
  • Parental influence on child's behaviors
  • Teaching sensitive children
  • Using exercise as a negative consequence
  • Implementing TSG as a whole family
  • Dealing with allergies AND picky eaters

Support Call 6-16-17

This call Covers:

  • Dealing with defiant children who have a problem with the Rule of Three
  • Pre-Teaching Children with anxiety
  • The importance of familial roles, and how society views them
  • How Roles change in a family
  • Getting Children to calm down when physical force may be neccesarry
  • Dealing with children who refuse to calm down

Support Call 5-05-17

This call covers:

  • 3-year-old will not do any chores, even after earning them and calming down.
  • Getting teens on board with the new TSG skills when they don't want to.
  • Feeling like a robot when doing the rule of three and how to make it not as mechanic.
  • Helping children become "humble enough" to listen to parents during the rule of three.
  • Inspiring change in adult children to help them stop power struggling.

Support Call 3-03-17

This call covers:

  • Answers to questions and announcements.
  • Specifics on doing corrections in the car.
  • Staying calm and facing power struggles from your children.
  • The difference between extrinsic and intrinsic motivation.
  • Feeling more understood when you disagree appropriately.

Support Call 2-10-17

This call covers:

  • How to help young children conrol their behaviors
  • Keeping yourself calm as an adult
  • Processing and dealing with emotions when you've been wronged
  • Rage and the Rule of Three
  • Giving instructions to learn (formal learning)

Support Call 1-13-17

This call covers:

  • Family history project planning
  • Son has no privileges and we're just starting the program. How does the rule of three work with that?
  • Having physical limitations that have become a hinderance instead of being helpful
  • Teaching children empathy
  • Setting boundaries for learning responsibilities
  • Talking about and setting boundaries for dating