In this time of innovation, abundance, and a voluminous amount of personal development and fulfillment messages, why are suicide, addiction, abuse and depression rates increasing? People have more things than ever before, yet there seems to be less happiness. Why has happiness decreased? What is the source of true happiness? The answers may be surprising. Children who learn happiness during childhood through regular family life are apt to find and cultivate happiness during adulthood no matter what circumstances surround them. The family is the foundational source of a life of happiness. Many will argue that God is the main source of all happiness; and that is true. The family as the foundation to happiness is in complete agreement with this truth. God instituted families and sent every person to a family. Families were designed with training children and good people in mind. Family is intended to be the environment and …

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Posted by Jeff Pizzino on May 4, 2016

This call covers: Becoming a joyful adult yourself. Easy going to control freak toddler. Manipulative and controlling son. Young son pees all over things and won’t be patient. He does it purposely sometimes. Daughter needs to wear glasses and eye patch, but doesn’t like to because she gets teased by step family and others. Son has new phone for a few days and already has looked at porn sites. How to address that.

Posted by Nicholeen Peck on October 7, 2016

This call covers: Changes for this school year Dishonesty and disrespect from our 14-year-old. What can I do to build my relationships with my children, especially my 15-year-old? Experiences, capacity, and skills. Also, balancing homeschool with 4 children under 6.

Posted by Nicholeen Peck on August 17, 2016

This Call Covers: Children peeing on their floor Having love for your children while correcting them. fixing irritable behavior Helping adult children accept role

Posted by Nicholeen Peck on August 13, 2018

Whole call: CC Notes 7-7-2021 https://s3.amazonaws.com/1-SupportCalls/2021/07july/tsg-sc-7-6-21WhoeEdited.mp3 Question: 6 year old and 3 year old chore rewards for money or screen time. When we give the 3 year old instructions she shuts down and says she needs help every time. Answer: https://s3.amazonaws.com/1-SupportCalls/2021/07july/ts-sc-7-6-21Q1.mp3 Pre-teach… Work with them… Earning screen time… Give her raise… Question: Disagreeing appropriately and moving into the rule of three. My son likes to debate and so I want to tell him he can’t disagree appropriately. Answer: https://s3.amazonaws.com/1-SupportCalls/2021/07july/tsg-sc-7-6-21Q2.mp3 The fact the he is improving… He’s arguing…”I understand…” Tell him what you’re thinking and how you’re processing what he’s doing… Practice… Question: Questions about the heart and manipulation while in 24 hours loss of privilege. Answer: https://s3.amazonaws.com/1-SupportCalls/2021/07july/tsg-sc-7-6-21Q3.mp3 Damaged relationship… Bonding… Graduating the program… It’s about the heart… Question: Question about correcting and feeling childish. Answer: https://s3.amazonaws.com/1-SupportCalls/2021/07july/tsg-sc-7-6-21Q4.mp3 United hearts… Question: My 2.5-year-old is out of control a lot. I don’t have …

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Posted by Nicholeen Peck on July 8, 2021

This Call Covers:Manipulation from younger children and how to stop itControlling a completely out of control childHelping a child who is constantly going through the Rule of 3Parenting a compulsively defiant child

Posted by Nicholeen Peck on August 1, 2019

This Call Covers:Children not accepting a consequencePreventing talking backKeeping an orderly class at church

Posted by Nicholeen Peck on July 18, 2019

This call covers: Is “going to the realms of fantasy” the same as negative attention-seeking? Children learning to follow instructions with or without the specific TSG language. How to use TSG with an aged 16 daughter who knows no boundaries and who must go to court for her behaviors. When given a “no” answer, how to recognize and correct manipulation. My husband thinks I’m too quick to correct behaviors and he doesn’t like the 24-hrs loss of privileges “punishment.” How to have family meetings with grown children.

Posted by Nicholeen Peck on July 23, 2015

This Call Covers: Correcting not dropping the subject Bedtime emotional manipulation Calming down for the rule of three Disagreeing appropriately Staying calm during the rule of three Calming a child down during a correction

Posted by Nicholeen Peck on July 16, 2018

This Call Covers:Helping children adapt to the college experienceImproving self esteem in teenagersEmotionally reactive childrenLoss of privliges and the rule of three

Posted by Nicholeen Peck on June 8, 2019

This Call Covers: Potty training for hard children Stopping swearing Figuring out the next steps for your family How to stay consistent Helping siblings get along

Posted by Nicholeen Peck on June 6, 2018

This Call Covers:Dishonest ChildrenAnxiety in small childrenSelf-image and Self-worth struggles in teenagers

Posted by Nicholeen Peck on June 28, 2019