Support Call 3-21-18
This Call Covers:
- dealing with cousins with different values
- helping a child who is prone to lots of touching
- giving reasons for corrections
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Consequences
Support Call 3-2-18
This Call Covers:
- Helping husbands develop more self government skills
- How to help children not power struggle while disagreeing appropriately
- Dealing with bullies
- Stoping children who struggle with being violent
- Restitution and correction of stealing
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Support Call 2-23-18
This Call Covers:
- Giving children allowances
- Dealing with young children’s behavior in a growing family
- How to help a power-struggling child
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Support Call 2-9-18
This Call Covers:
- Helping a child who chooses violence instead of accepting a consequence/no answer
- Promoting focus in young children, especially those with mental impairments
- Recommended books for familes
- TSG with really young children
- Teaching young boys about the proper use of violence and force.
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Praise for Parents!
I want to thank you all for your great comments over the years regarding your success and transformation as parents! It’s so good to hear your stories. I’m constantly receiving emails with comments like, “I’m learning that I have the same behavior that bothers me about my child,” or “I have [this/that] weakness that I’m working on.” Please keep your comments coming. What amazing examples you are of parents who are focused on governing themselves. I hope you are all happier because of what you have chosen to see in yourselves. Recognizing a problem is the first step toward freeing yourself.
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The Law of Cause and Effect is True
“Cause and effect is as absolute and undeviating in the hidden realm of thought as in the world of visible and material things.”
We cannot change cause and effect no matter how hard we try.Bad will always produce bad for someone and good will always produce good for someone.The law of cause and effect is true, even if the someone isn’t the person doing the good or the bad.
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Support Call 1-19-18
This Call Covers:
- Helping out with parent calmness
- Does TSG promote abuse and vulnerability?
- Dealing with lying children who threaten to run away
- Helping a child who is prone to breaking things
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Support Call 1-12-18
This Call Covers:
- Teaching children not to be judgemental
- Dealing with anger management issues
- Helping you maintain your patience when you’re running thin
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Support Call 12-29-17
This Call Covers:
- How to create a solid and wholesome family culture
- Some questions about children’s behavior during extra chore time
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Support Call 12-22-17
This Call Covers:
- How to help children who are compulsive liars
- Ways to show compassion without coddling your children
- Dealing with anxiety in small children
- Helping a child overcome swearing and backtalk
- Fun Games for the whole family!
- Dealing with calm down spot infractions/staying calm yourself
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Support Call 12-15-17
This Call Covers:
- What a TSG bedtime looks like
- When is it ok to micromanage?
- Helping children with potty training
- Using the modified rule of three
- Disciplining yourself during pregnancy
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Support Call 12-1-17
This Call Covers:
- How to help high-energy children interact with each other and not get hurt
- How long/often you should hold your child in the calm down spot
- Giving very tired children consequences and corrections. How to deal with excuses.
- Helping children reach economic goals
- Stopping children from stealing food.
- How to balance homeschool and housework
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How to Reach the Heart of Your Child… and Yourself
Reaching a child’s heart is vital for awakening his conscience and morally training him to desire to make good choices, but structure also has a part to play in training the heart. This is a true story, and a new parenting lesson, of how to help a person understand the truths behind your teachings. Structure
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They Keep Getting Angry!
“Hi Nicholeen,
I have been working hard to implement the principles you have taught me. I have seen a huge difference in how I parent and respond to my children. However, there has been one side effect I was not expecting. Because of my poor parenting in the past, they have developed a habit of responding with ange
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Support Call 11-2-17
This Call Covers:
- Helping someone calm down without power struggling
- Do parents get consequences?
- Enforcing an already broken family standard rule
- Helping children to have clean language
- Adjusting time limits for people who break the rules often
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Support Call 10-27-17
This Call Covers:
- Staying calm when the children are fighting.
- Dealing with teenager attitude problems
- Bedtime with children sharing a room
- Disabilities and bad behavior.
- Having a personal calm down plan
- Helping children with laundry
- Overcoming shyness
- Children who are violent
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Support Call 10-13-17
This Call Covers:
- Picky eaters syndrome!
- Time Management for parents
- The proper times to use 24 hour loss of privliges
- Compulsive lying
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Support Call 10-6-17
This Call Covers:
- Children still earning lots of extra chores
- Parental influence on child’s behaviors
- Teaching sensitive children
- Using exercise as a negative consequence
- Implementing TSG as a whole family
- Dealing with allergies AND picky eaters
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Support Call 9-22-17
This Call Covers:
- How to help children “bust” their boredom
- Dealing with perfectionism
- Making a mission Statement
- Helping children to stop fighting with each other
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Support Call 9-8-17
This Call Covers:
- A discussion on Shakespeare and Self-Government
- Time out
- Stopping littering
- Stopping negativity in teenagers
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