Whole call: CC Notes 9-1-2021 https://s3.amazonaws.com/1-SupportCalls/2021/09september/8-1-21/tsg-sc-9-1-21-Whoeledited.mp3 Question: My question is about friends verses family time. My family is my priority and yet we have a large amount of friend time. The trouble I’m having is that when I say no to friends but don’t have anything really meaningful going on around the house I seem to give in to the friend time. They all seem a little down and tired when we do have family time which lends itself to wanting to watch a movie. Honestly, sometimes it’s a welcomed request because I’m tired too and want a break. If all we do together is watch a movie to rest for the next “event” then I know we are really missing out on vital relationships. Unfortunately I don’t know where to draw the line. I have 2 16 yo and 2 10yo if that helps to get an idea of …
Posted by Nicholeen Peck on September 1, 2021
This call covers: Twin 6-year-old boys who struggle with lying, cheating, and stealing. New to the program and has a 10-year-old son who rages and gets angry. Aged 2 son slaps, pinches, and rips. He’s a little bully. Adopted daughter won’t open up about anything and phone is a constanct companion. Entitlement confusion.
Posted by Nicholeen Peck on September 7, 2016
This Call Covers: Kids Faking illnesses Correcting children on the Autism spectrum Helping children feel comfortable playing
Posted by Nicholeen Peck on September 3, 2018
This Call Covers: Attention Seeking in adult children Helping ADHD kids be calm Correcting children who make rude comments TSG and multiple mental disorders in children
Posted by Nicholeen Peck on August 6, 2018
This Call covers: Changing course mid-rule of three Rule of three with Aspergers/Autistic children Stoping kids from playing with matches Positive and negative attention seeking
Posted by Nicholeen Peck on July 27, 2017
This call covers: preventing judgemental attitudes in children Difference between behavioral differences and immorality Extra chores/Negative Consequences on the road Dietary effects on behavior Teaching Children to Dissagree Appropriately with each other Teaching autistic children TSG Handling children who go out of control once they lose privleges
Posted by Nicholeen Peck on June 23, 2017
This Call Covers:Self government in a time of crisisSiblings being sillyCalm down spot adviceHelping parents learn about your self government journeyAutism and being corrected by others
Posted by Nicholeen Peck on March 21, 2020
This call covers: How to know if you’re “doing it right” or if it’s good enough. Young children boundary issues and correcting. Helping teach young son how to communicate without manipulation and aggression.
Posted by Nicholeen Peck on March 22, 2017
This Call Covers: Helping a child who chooses violence instead of accepting a consequence/no answer Promoting focus in young children, especially those with mental impairments Recommended books for familes TSG with really young children Teaching young boys about the proper use of violence and force.
Posted by Nicholeen Peck on February 10, 2018
Whole call: CC Notes 2-24-2021 https://s3.amazonaws.com/1-SupportCalls/2021/02February/tsg-sc-2-23-21Whole+edited.mp3 Question: Hi Nicholeen, Just wondering how I can stop my 10 year old daughter from leaving her things lying around the house. I know that sometimes she doesn’t actually do the task immediately after I tell her to put something away and then she forgets and It gets left out. I haven’t always followed through with giving her an extra chore because I feel as though she would be on the rule of three so quickly and she is not being malicious. And then it doesn’t seem to make sense to go through the whole script of ‘I know you want to tell me something…’ when the issue is tardiness. Or is the issue that she is just 10 and that leaving your stuff lying around the house is normal? We have a very small house, she doesn’t have her own room (she shares …
Posted by Nicholeen Peck on February 27, 2021
This call covers: Time flies as your children get older. Teaching my children love instead of toleration. It’s hard to stay consistent, but even more so with HF autism. I know I need to connect with my children, but I don’t want to. You have a section in your book that talks about telling your children about sex. Why are you not in favor of sex ed in schools?
Posted by Nicholeen Peck on February 26, 2016
This call covers: Son is lazy and likes to take the “path of least resistance.” Child refuses to eat what Mom makes for dinner and is very picky. How to handle misbehavior during school hours and keeping younger children quiet during that time. Right triangle and keeping diapers on children.
Posted by Nicholeen Peck on February 28, 2017