This Call Covers:TSG and DepressionADHD and following instructionsHelping children who refuse to get calmStrong willed children

Posted by Nicholeen Peck on May 14, 2019

Whole call: call notes 4-7-2021 https://s3.amazonaws.com/1-SupportCalls/2021/04April/tsg-sc-4-7-21-Whole+Edited.mp3 Question: -How can I tell if my desire to change something about myself and my goals is due to internal inspiration or a sub-conscious development due to societal/cultural pressures and marketing. -Is it okay to adjust things to be more relatable/ “normal”? -How can I sustain and nourish my internal integrity and commitment to my very out-there goals and vision? I recently returned home from serving a mission for my church and am preparing to attend school this coming semester in Idaho. Being home has been a great time of reflection and preparation. I’m at a stage in my development of self that seems more substantial and lasting. I want to begin this new decade and season of life with the intent to lay a strong foundation of habits and bring about the educated, disciplined, and distinct vision I have for myself. The vision …

Posted by Nicholeen Peck on April 10, 2021

This call covers: Helping husband with his tone. Son is having trouble keeping his thoughts away from other men. Follow-up with age 5 son who hits, bites, and kicks. Husband not on board and son is addicted to electronics and is physical.

Posted by Nicholeen Peck on April 29, 2016

This call covers: Asking questions and some scheduling for May. Applying TSG to young children, son with a “loose mouth”, and bedtime in a shared bedroom. Discussing methods for correcting bad language. How to do the Rule of Three with children that need to “do it over.” Contemplating putting oldest son in school for multiple reasons. Is it the best option? Synthetic consequences foreveryone? Parents need Self-Government too… Fixing obnoxious behavior and helping change child’s heart during the Rule of three.

Posted by Nicholeen Peck on April 28, 2017

This call covers: Setting phone limits for children with smartphones. Young children who hit and bite. Affirmation during a correction.

Posted by Nicholeen Peck on April 27, 2017

This call covers: Pornography resolution on Utah Capitol Hill. Struggling with TSG through daughter’s puberty. How to teach TSG principles in a religious setting to younger children. Comment on pornography resolution.

Posted by Nicholeen Peck on April 21, 2016

This Call Covers:Helping children overcome video game addictionStopping negativity in children

Posted by Nicholeen Peck on March 21, 2019

This Call Covers: Helping a young child with a computer addiciton Rebuilding a relationship with a rebellious teen How to truly master the TSG skills

Posted by Nicholeen Peck on March 30, 2018

CC Notes 3-24-2021 https://s3.amazonaws.com/1-SupportCalls/2021/03March/tsg-sc-3-24-21Wholeedited.mp3 Question: So I just stumbled on my 6 year old playing with himself in the bath. How do I address this issue? What are the exact words I say to not make him feel uncomfortable but also discourage future issues. I already started to address the issue with him. I asked him directly if he was playing with himself in the bath. He said yes. I paused and I asked him if it felt good he said yes. I said ok and that I understand but we just don’t play with ourselves. I didn’t say anything else. He was still feeling comfortable at this point and I’m comfortable discussing it just don’t know what to say after that. What do you do for younger ages and older age children? Answer: https://s3.amazonaws.com/1-SupportCalls/2021/03March/tsg-sc-3-24-21Q1.mp3 “Our special private body parts have are for special things like going to the bathroom, …

Posted by Nicholeen Peck on March 27, 2021

We had some questions concerning spouse relationships and teen behaviors. The call was very good and it clarified what should be done and what not to do in these situations.

Posted by Nicholeen Peck on March 27, 2014

Whole call: CC Notes 3-17-2021 https://s3.amazonaws.com/1-SupportCalls/2021/03March/tsg-sc-3-17-21WHOLEedited.mp3 Question: If you have to do a soft hold, how do you transition out of it? I haven’t had to do it as much lately but last night our 5 year old was destructive and violent. After I started holding him, he also threatened to pee his pants. I had him go in the bathroom but he wouldn’t go while I was in the room and I wouldn’t leave while he was out of control. He hit me again and I held him in the dry shower in case he chose to pee. I told him as soon as he was still I would let go of him. He eventually got still and I let go of him. I followed him out of the bathroom and he hit me a few times softly as he yelled “Get away from me.” I told him I …

Posted by Nicholeen Peck on March 20, 2021

This Call Covers:Helping children develop productive hobbiesLegos and no answersYoung children and the calm down spot

Posted by Nicholeen Peck on February 8, 2020