Happy Mother's Day! I hope you have planned how you will spend your special day. I usually try to find ways to serve my family like a good mother does. Years ago I fell into the trap of feeling entitled on Mother's Day. I thought it was my day off. After being thrown up on and having everything go wrong, and feeling like being a mother was the worst thing ever, I decided that never again would I trick myself into that kind of selfishness. I decided that Mother's Day was my day to do what I do; mother people. I decided that to honor my special day best I needed to be selfless, not selfish.